This is the continuation of a conversation that began with my frustrated (and none-too-gently worded) outburst on Facebook that I’m not going to pray for Japan because the best thing that God could have done is prevent the tragedy to begin with, and if he’s not interested in doing that, I don’t see the point in trying to talk him into helping with the clean-up. Yes–shocking, I know. Please feel free to assign me whatever label seems fitting.
One of my friends wrote something in response which prompted me to write a string of sentences too long for Facebook, so I’m posting it here, with everyone’s names omitted or obscured so I don’t implicate innocents in my own heresy.
Your comparison of the church’s explanations for God’s lack of visible activity to the explanations that allow children to maintain belief in a non-existent Santa Claus—which I denounce as heretical and well beyond the bounds of civil discourse, and for which I label you a heathen and miscreant—gets close to what is troubling me. Everyone’s belief system is internally consistent. It might have huge gaps, it might be based on error, it might pointedly fail to notice certain phenomena and it might consign a great deal of important questions to the category of unknowable mystery, but it’s internally consistent. This is true of Republicans and Democrats, Anarchists and Fascists, Hindus and Buddhists and Christians whether fundamentalist, evangelical or liberal. I once preached for a church that had two members who were diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia. Their beliefs were irrational, but completely consistent. One dropped by my office on a pleasant Monday, complaining of having been shot by a spy who had taken over the body of one of our elders. I was willing to go along with the idea that the elder in question was an enemy agent bent on destroying the church—it explained a lot of what I had experienced, too—but it was obvious that my troubled friend had not actually been shot. When I asked him to show me the wound so I could help him bandage it (because I’m sneaky that way) he told me that it was a new kind of bullet whose wounds closed immediately, leaving no trace. Completely internally consistent. There weren’t in cracks in his worldview; or if there were, they didn’t last long before an explanation was devised. The human mind is remarkably good at resolving inconsistency. That’s even true for very troubled minds. Actually, it’s probably especially true for very troubled minds. Healthy people can temporarily carry inconsistent conclusions around before they find a way to resolve them, but they will resolve them, eventually.
I’m open to persuasion (maybe too open, some would say) and I’d be happy to reassess this conclusion, but it looks to me like what most Christians say about the work of God in the world is exactly what they would say if there were no God at all. Well, no, he doesn’t intervene to prevent tragedy because (1) he honors our free will, (2) he wants us to learn from our suffering, (3) he works through the church to love and comfort people, (4) the age of miracles has passed.…etc. Well, no, there’s no obvious sign of his existence because (1) you have to have the eyes of faith to see it, (2) he doesn’t want to coerce anyone’s faith, (3) faith does mean believing in the unseen, after all….etc. You ask me how I know he lives? He lives within my heart. Several times I’ve been in a situation where a young (under 45) person was dealing with a potentially fatal illness or accident, and, inevitably, every possible sign of good news was taken as evidence that God was healing the beloved person. Most of the time, the patient eventually died, and when he or she did, the new story was that “God has answered our prayers by healing our friend completely, and taking them into the presence of Jesus.” No one ever seems to notice that just yesterday, death would have been seen as a complete failure on the part of God to give us what we were asking for, which was full, physical, right-here-on-earth healing. Once death comes, it’s like we all agree to forget what we really wanted, and act like that’s what we had in mind all along. No one says (even me, although I’m thinking it) “just two days ago, the consensus was that the new test results meant that God was healing our beloved! Either God was just toying with us, (in which case, he’s a sadist more deserving of rebellion than worship) or we were interpreting ordinary, natural fluctuations as divine intervention without sufficient cause to do so. We were prayerfully, honorably, reverently wrong.”
Well, it’s a new kind of bullet, you see. Not one that you’ve heard of before. This is the kind of bullet that leaves no wound. This is the kind of healing that looks just like death. This is the kind of love that looks just like apathy. This is the kind of intervention that looks just like stillness.
Once you decide to accept the truth of Christianity, you learn to make these little adjustments. Nothing can disprove the faith, because either we’ve already got an orthodox reason why it looks (to people who don’t have the eyes of faith!) like God isn’t doing anything or we announce that we don’t need to try to defend or explain God anyway, and it’s ultimately a mystery.
But if you step outside of the internally consistent Christian worldview (of whichever variety) and ask: what about other ways of viewing the world? If I adopt the mindset of an atheist—just to try it on for a second and see how things look—it turns out that’s it’s internally consistent, too! It also accounts for everything I see. It also explains the world.
And, as everyone now knows, I get a little frustrated on occasion (just a teensy bit, mind you) with pious pronouncements in the wake of horrific tragedy. This week, I’m even frustrated with prayer. Not yours or D—’s or anyone else’s, but certainly with mine. I look at the images coming in from Japan and start to try to form some petition to a God that, if he exists, certainly could have stopped it all from happening, and I don’t even know what to say. His kind of caring is so different and alien from anything that I know as caring that communication seems impossible. (Yes, I know, we have an answer for that one too–the Holy Spirit will intercede on my behalf, with groanings I can’t hear.) What I want to pray is for him to undo the whole mess, and maybe give us that unshakeable Earth that the psalmists are always singing about. But we all know that that isn’t going to happen, so we’re left praying for things that we can’t see either fulfilled or unfulfilled, or things that are sufficiently vague that we can interpret the evidence to fit our desired outcomes—comfort, peace, healing. If you’re the kind of person who is calmed and made peaceful by prayer anyway (i.e. the polar opposite of me), then your outcome is sure from the start.
I’m more like the pastor that Annie Dillard describes in Holy the Firm except not so obviously full of Jesus. She writes:
There is one church here, so I go to it. On Sunday mornings I quit the house and wander down the hill to the white frame church in the firs. On a big Sunday there might be twenty of us there; often I am the only person under sixty, and feel as though I’m on an archaeological tour of Soviet Russia. The members are of mixed denominations; the minister is a Congregationalist, and wears a white shirt. The man knows God. Once, in the middle of the long pastoral prayer of intercession for the whole world–for the gift of wisdom to its leaders, for hope and mercy to the grieving and pained, succor to the oppressed, and God’s grace to all–in the middle of this he stopped, and burst out, “Lord, we bring you these same petitions every week.” After a shocked pause, he continued reading the prayer. Because of this, I like him very much.
I’m having my own outburst at the moment, “Lord we bring you these same petitions every week!” And yet this week looks like last week, and like the one before that, and the one before that, and on and on and on for as far into the past as we can see.
7 responses to “Tsunamis and the Irksomeness of Prayer”
Thank you for saying this. I can’t get away with it, but I’m glad someone can. ;)
So…do you really label me as a heathen and miscreant?? LOL
My interest area in school surrounds the consistency deal. Long story short, I think our intellectual problem is related to an overemphasis on consistency’s value. We tend to think that consistency, being correct, being true, being better, being justified, etc. are an all or nothing package deal. IMHO this is based on nothing more than a particular intellectual narrative we’ve chosen to accept and play by. (BTW, of course the problem only shows up once we have to deal with more than a single Discourse.)
I’ve pretty much decided that the requirement for consistency is a mistake and obviously ignores reality. While I strive for being trustworthy, honest and the like, I no longer hold myself or others to a standard that demands strict consistency in beliefs. I think this is a more honest way to face what it means to be a human being.
Thanks for your honesty in your post; I think if more of us were more open and honest, we’d admit that we’ve all been in the same situation as you when it comes to prayer.
I believe you have mentioned C. S. Lewis in some past posts. I think he covered a lot of this in his book “Miracles”. A quote that has always stuck with me is from page 294 (in my copy) of that book: “For example, because it is better for you and for everyone else in the long run that other people, including wicked ones, should exercise free will than that you should be protected from cruelty or treachery by turning the human race into automata.”
And yes, I realize you could use this quote as an example of someone trying to salvage God by proposing an explanation for unanswered prayer. But I also wonder if all of mankind isn’t like the teenager who says: “You never loved me, you just want me to be like you, I can’t depend on you to satisfy my needs, you never take me seriously, that car accident wasn’t my fault, how was I supposed to know, this is all just lame and phony!”
Lewis also talks about all the positive miracles that occur every single day, and that the miracles that Jesus performed in his ministry were echoes of those (e.g., renewable sources of food, wine from water, medical cures, etc.)
I believe God can make a mountain he cannot move, and he has, by giving us free will. And I think it breaks his heart, but I cannot prove that. I do sometimes wonder whether our pets understand us better than we understand God.
I’m trying to be less of an “angry atheist” these days. This is the sort of writing which helps me in that aim. Thanks.
Thanks. I’m glad you found it. Anytime sorting out my own internal junk is helpful to someone else, that’s a good day.
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